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Monday, March 10, 2014

CRUSH ? Is it by Heart or by Mind ?

This post is one crazy idea, I just want to express my feelings I have these past few days. AS IN literally CRAZY ! Ok here goes,

I have a crush on someone, one of my friends but I am not going to name names, just to be safe ( LOL ). This person has everything that I am looking for, on a person. Physically, Mentally, Emotionally and even Spiritually, as in perfect ! The problem is I am not sure anymore if this is still Crush or already Love? ( Music plays; I've fallen for you. Lol! ). The reason I've thought of that is because it's already weird and I'm already starting to feel stuff that I should not feel such as, I get envy everytime I see pictures of this person being close with others, how come not with me? Also, I get jealous when I know that other people can be comfortable doing awkward stuff with this person and how come I can't? Told you, Crazy and Weird! It got to a point where I'm stalking the Facebook account of this person and can't stand not seeing any of the pictures in this person's account. ( Ugh , I know right? ). I got hit by this person, BIG TIME! Actually I think I already love this person but I have no intentions of being in a relationship with this person because first, I know it is very impossible. Second, I'd be happy enough if we will just be close friends or bestfriends, the fact that we will be talking to each other every single day, not bad at all. I just want to officially be part this person's life and know things happening in this person's life. I am a deep person, but I can be that shallow too, that's how simple I can be and can can be happy with. *wink*

So, CRUSH? Is this by your Heart or Mind? Do you feel this because your Heart says so or it's just you think of it as a good thing. This feeling comes up at an early age, let's say as early as around 6 or 7 years old. Crush or having crush on somebody is not bad, it's pretty much like having an inspiration through someone. It can also be like, liking somebody  and being happy everytime that person is around. Crush can be through Mind, it's because you think that person can be a role model to you and the thought of you want to be like that person. It can also be through Heart, it's when you like the person enough that you would like to be with that person or even as simple as just seeing that person. I am sure that most of you are familiar with the Book Story turned Movie "Bakit hindi ka crush ng crush mo?" (How come your crush doesn't have a crush on you?) It is indeed a very great story and I'm pretty much sure that most of you can relate to that. It is a great explanation on how having crush on somebody starts.

Having a crush on somebody isn't bad at all, no matter what gender you have; Straight, Bi, Gay or Lesbian. No matter what age, Young and Old can still experience and enjoy this feeling. It is not stated that there are Do's and Don'ts when having crush on someone because it is for yourself, as long as you are happy and inspired, if you think that will make your life much more meaningful then go ahead. As long as you know that it is still good but if you feel different where it starts to make you do weird stuff and questionable things, then STOP, before it gets worse. ( Just like my situation, LOL ).

Having a crush on somebody is just as simple as being inspired and being HAPPY! If you have a cute story to share or any story regarding your crush or even comments about my weird situation ( LOL ! ) just comment below at the comment box and we can talk about it.

Happy Reading BlogBusters ! 
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